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Saturday, September 26, 2026

Nova's First Ride at Bit of Honey

Nova had her first ride here this morning.  She was great for mounting and walking around to start.  I'm told she's had significant riding prior to coming here, but I don't want to make any assumptions about what she knows or not.  I treat each new horse like they are just starting out, even the ones with advanced training. I gradually go through the things they might know until we reach something they don't understand.  Plus, I may do things differently than previous trainers, and she'll need to figure out what I'm doing too.

Here's the video from her first ride at Bit of Honey.

https://youtu.be/WXD7fuVw9tM?is=GRQP-qDW9veoijTo



Mounting and having cookies


A little trot each way after some discussion about appropriate ways to express discomfort with the girth.



One little canter departure.



As always, with border collie assistance!

Friday, September 25, 2026

Getting to Know You

When I have these first training sessions with a new horse, I often think of the song from The King and I, "Getting to know you, getting to know all about you..."  Depending on the circumstances, sometimes I go into a first session with a lot of information about the horse, sometimes not so much, sometimes conflicting information from different sources, and sometimes what the horse tells me in the first session doesn't match at all what the humans have told me.

In this case, Nova behaved exactly as I'd expect a typical five year old to behave who had been staying in a stall overnight at a horseshow, then rode in a trailer for eight hours, then stayed in a small paddock for three days.  She was very full of herself and ready to PLAY!!

I'd spent a little time with her yesterday figuring out what of my tack library fits her best.  Since she's got that look to her of a baby who's been growing a lot recently, I fully expect her tack preferences and fits to change over the next weeks and months, but at least I've got some gear that fits her right now.  The piece that I tried the most variations was her bit.  She has a warmblood sized face, but her actual mouth and tongue are quite narrow and thin.  I initially tried a regular two piece snaffle bit, but the mouthpieces were straight and didn't lie nicely over her tongue and bars of her mouth.  She looked at me and tried to keep her mouth shut like a well behaved creature, but I stuck my finger in the side of her lips and had her "say ah".  This made it clear to her that I was looking at fit, and she proceeded to gape her mouth open, wagging her tongue at me to clarify that no, this was not the one!

Next I tried a three piece snaffle that was curved, but the side pieces were still too long.  This made it so the angles of it once more didn't lie smoothly across her tongue and bars, and actually projected out the sides of her mouth.  She made funny faces again.  

On the third try I put a very curved three piece snaffle in her mouth, with more equal length pieces.  This one laid nicely over her tongue and bars and didn't poke too far out the sides of her mouth.  She was much quieter with this in her mouth and noticeably relaxed once I had everything adjusted.  I'll say this for the opinionated baby horses - they sure do make it clear when you've got something right or wrong!

Once we were tacked up we headed out to the ring.  It's a little bit of a walk the way I currently have pasture fencing set up, and she was eager to get going!  She has such a huge stride she could out walk me without trying, but she was sure trying!  We practiced a little bit of walking and stopping and being polite, which is super hard when you're full of beans.  

Eventually we got to the ring, and I set her up with a rope halter over her bridle and put her on the lungeline.  I had the dogs with me, and I suspect working around dogs is new to her from how she reacted.  Initially she gave them the side-eye, wondering if she was supposed to be paying attention to them and what they said, or me and what I directed.   Quickly she figured out they are more playmates than taskmasters, and thus began the young horse circus!  


 

This photo of her playing with the dogs with her front legs going one way and her hind legs going the other way makes me laugh, and reminds me of a very similar photo I have of Highboy near the same age when he was playing with the dogs.

 

 

I'm hoping that it's just a fluke similarity and not a harbinger of what's to come in this mare's training - Highboy took a VERY long time to mature physically, then mentally.  While he's totally solid today, he didn't get his last half inch of height until his eight year old year, and his brain didn't really kick in until he was closer to eleven!  Hopefully being a Standardbred and not thoroughbred, Nova will have an easier time of it despite their photographic similarities.  


Then again, this photo reminded me of one of many shots I have of Highboy doing the same maneuver.  However, he had no qualms about doing it under saddle to express disdain at small jumps.

 Nova had a good hard look at the ground poles while she was on the lungeline.  There was certainly lots to think about in this first training session!

Once I had her walking and trotting politely on the line and mostly ignoring the dogs, I took her tack off and let her run around free in the ring.  I didn't realize until later that I managed to leave the pivo recording while I put gear back in my tack room, but it produced some fun photos of her goofing around with Pascal.




I don't want anyone to be worried about the dogs, though.  While Nova was expressing her jollies, my dogs remembered their early days helping as horse training dogs.  They are not opposed to barking and creating some merriment, but they are quite good at staying out of the way and avoiding flying hooves.  

Ultimately Nova showed some fancy trotting with Pascal along for encouragement - check out the length of her stride when she's extended!


Nova also must have figured out the ground pole thing, because I caught her actually trying to jump it on the video that recorded while I wasn't in the ring.  I'm hopeful that she thinks this is a fun game if she's trying it all on her own, and that she'll enjoy jumping once I start introducing it.  Her jumping training will begin relatively slowly, because she is after all only five.  Horses skeletons aren't mature until at least 7, and in a horse her size quite possibly eight.  So her early jump work will include lots of cavalletti and footwork to help her figure out where her feet and body are in space, and that will go a long way towards teaching her how to do bigger and faster jumps for having the time spent on the little things.



 

Nova did settle down once she was done with her shenanigans.  What a good looking girl.  I'm very excited about this new project, and I think the dogs are too! 



 
Lynx is still here, he'll likely start his journey to his new home in Kansas on Monday.  The poor guy is a little confused as to why I'm doing this with Nova instead of him.  When I led her down to the ring, he followed along the entire length of the pasture on his side of the fence, watching us and occasionally whinnying.  I don't think he was calling to Nova, as he hasn't seemed interested in her at all since we all go home.  But he does this sometimes when I drive my truck along the property, following me from his side of the fence.  He also watched our training session from the gate, and I could almost feel him rolling his eyes at her baby horse antics.  He then walked the length of the fence back to the barn watching me.  He's the one in the fly mask in the photo.  I think he misses the job!  I've given him a few days off after working so hard at Nationals, but he says he's ready to get back to it.
 
 
Highboy is in this photo talking to Nova over the fence, hopefully telling her how pleasant it is to be a well behaved grown up horse, and not giving her any additional ideas for shenanigans.  Once Lynx leaves I'll gradually start introducing Nova to my herd so eventually she can live outside with them too.  I don't want to create unnecessary drama by trying to incorporate her into the group while Lynx is still here, it will be simpler to do it once she only has to determine her place with my three who have been together for so many years.
 

Thursday, September 24, 2026

Introducing Fox Valley Nova

We're all still recovering from the horseshow, but we did get home safely Monday evening.  We ended up coming home with four horses, so a full trailer!  



The two in the back behind the screens were geldings that I brought to simplify transport to their new home in Georgia.  It was definitely easier for their new owners to get them from here than from NJ! They were picked up yesterday and headed to what sounds like a wonderful equine facilitated sports psychology program for volleyball players, coaches, and family members.

Lynx was in the front.  He came back with me and will continue on to his new home in KS  beginning of next week. I'm glad he's getting a few days of down time to recover from the trip and show before heading to his new home where he'll do competitive trail riding and some dressage.

Next to Lynx was Fox Vally Nova, my new project.  They were a little funny with each other during the trip, they had a very sibling rivalry thing going.  Whenever we stopped for water and a rest break and I opened the windows, Lynx and Nova would make faces at each other, but it was more of a "Kiiiim!  She's LOOKING at me!" than any kind of actual arguing.  I did find out they were in the same racing barn for a while, so they probably remembered each other and were just irritating each other for fun.

Nova is 5 years old and she's quite nicely put together, though I think she's got a lot of growing left to do. I measured her with a stick and level, and she's currently 16.2 and 1/2". I string tested her and she measures to 17.2 when she's fully mature! It's not out of the realm of possibility, I've had several big ones that didn't get their last half inch of height until their 8 y/o year...! We'll see how she does in the next few months.  Growth spurts and coordination are often at odds with each other!


Miss Nova got a haircut this morning to begin her transition to sporthorse life.  She also figured out the head tilt/lips wiggle to earn cookies.  She's been very fun so far.  I've missed having a youngster around, my current herd is getting to be elderly.  While I am grateful their brains have finally kicked in and they are a lot less work than when they were young and always causing trouble, it's fun to have a squirrely baby again.




She does like all the cookies I've offered her, and has figured out the head tilt and lip wiggle to ask for additional snacks.  I prefer this to getting mugged for treats, so I like to teach this party trick early.




She of course raced under the name Fox Valley Nova, and has been going by Nova since her racing career ended.  In this part of the country however, "NOVA" is short for Northern Virginia.  There's a general consensus around here that SOVA (Southern Virginia) is preferred to NOVA, so she may be called Sova while she's here in training.  It sounds similar enough that I don't think she'll get confused, and everyone here loves Sova!

Saturday, September 19, 2026

Rookie Hunter Division Champion

It's late and we're all tired, but we ended Saturday with beautiful jumping rounds over both crossrails and 2'. Lynx was so extremely tired as his last jump round wasn't until after dark, and we'd started with the first class of the day at 8am! He really pulled it together and landed us with a clean sweep of first place ribbons in all his jumping classes. This resulted in him winning the Rookie Hunter Division championship title for the entire National show! What an incredible accomplishment for this horse who only arrived at Bit of Honey Training LLC on July 6th to learn to be a riding horse.




We did a crossrails jumping class and a 2' class. Lynx impressed everyone in both by having really good form, and tight knees over each fence.




What a great overachieving effort right in front of the judge!




I love the expression on his face, he enjoyed the jumping so much!









What a wildly successful show!  This horse really showed everyone what he could do and all he'd learned at Bit of Honey Training.  I'm so very proud of him!

Here's the video from his last jumping round.

https://youtu.be/qn81Z5Pimc4?is=kbLqSigsS-xGT4Wx